What To Text Your Ex To Get Him Back If He Cheated On You

| January 6, 2013 | 1 Comment

woman textingYou are reeling from the shock of the break up. You’re shaking and feeling so hurt. You desperately want him back again and feel sick as you sit there imagining him with another girl. You pick the phone up and your thumb shakes over the keypad as you try and think what to text your ex to get him back again.

Every woman has been in your situation at some time or another. It’s not uncommon for a guy to cheat even if he still loves you. He may have been very happy with you, but for some reason was tempted by another woman. You may feel like you are alone but believe me there are plenty of other women going through the same trauma. You may be feeling angry right now, and also sad at the loss of the guy you thought you would be spending the rest of your life with. You may even be angry with yourself, and for some reason actually blame yourself for his cheating

The best thing to do is to give yourself some space and re evaluate the relationship. Think about all the things that you don’t like about him, and then all the things you love about him. Decide if you really believe that the relationship is worth saving. Take your time over this very important decision before you even think about what to text your ex.

what to text your ex to get him backChasing after your ex boyfriend will only push him further away and into the arms of the other woman. Even if you feel it was your fault that he cheated, don’t make the mistake of sending frantic text messages. It can make you look very needy and could actually kill any attraction that he may still feel for you.

I would advise you to wait for at least a couple of weeks before sending a text. I know it’s hard but you will have a far greater chance of saving your relationship with your boyfriend if you wait. If during this time he texts you and says that he loves you and regrets his actions, I would still wait a while before replying. You don’t want him to think you are just waiting by the phone.

This makes you look desperate and needy. The same applies if he phones you, or sends an email. In fact if you get a call and recognise his number on the display, I would let it go to voicemail. This may seem an impossible thing to do, but you will be putting yourself in control which is what you want to achieve.

happy womanDuring this couple of weeks you should be spending time working on yourself. Your confidence levels are probably very low after your break up. You need to boost your self esteem by going out and socialising with friends, take up new interests and even go on a few dates. You will seen far more attractive if you can accept the break up. If he sees that you have moved on with your life and can survive quite happily without him then he may see you in a new light. It’s human nature to want what you can’t have and once you seem unobtainable he may start to panic that he’s lost you for good!

I know that you are waiting for me to tell you what to text your ex to get him back, but you need to be patient and wait for at least 30 days before you make contact. If you haven’t heard from him in that time. Just send a quick text asking how he is and how well you are doing. Make him curious and want to find out more.

Relationship coach Michael Fiore has come up with a simple method for using TEXT MESSAGES to to drag your man back to you like a laser beam. . . to eliminate all the negative thoughts he has about you and to create the relationship you’ve always wanted with the man of your dreams . .

“Text messages are the closest thing we have to telepathy,” says Fiore. “With the right texts you can short circuit a man’s critical brain and awaken those deep feelings he still has for you in his heart no matter how hard he tries to deny them. Just send the right messages in the right order and you’ll be amazed at how he decides’ he wants you back all on his own, without you ever having to beg, cry or even hint that you want him back in your life.” He will forget all about the other girl he’s been seeing, and do anything to get you back in his life again. He will be convinced that getting back together is all his idea, even though you were the one that sent the texts. Before long he will be calling YOU and all the anxiety and tension you felt will disappear.

Watch this short video to learn Michael Fiore’s method for using TEXT MESSAGES to get your ex boyfriend back into your life (and your bed) . . . it works no matter how long you’ve been broken up, no matter who broke up with who and even if he’s seeing someone else now.

But a word of warning: “Please, don’t use this if you’re manipulative or abusive towards your ex boyfriend. It’s extremely powerful stuff and I only want you to use this if you really believe that you and your ex boyfriend are meant to be together.”

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